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Parent and Infant Relationship Service (Kent)

Our experienced team of psychologists and psychotherapists are here to support a positive and loving relationship between you and your baby.

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Here for baby.
Here for you.

Funded by Best Start in Life through Kent County Council and delivered in partnership with Real Group Ltd, the Parent and Infant Relationship Service (PAIRS) provides emotional wellbeing support to families across Kent.


Supporting the relationship between a parent or caregiver and their baby is one of the most effective ways to ensure long-term positive mental health for both. We recognise that whilst the transition to parenthood is rewarding, it can also be deeply challenging.


PAIRS is here to provide a therapeutic space for those finding it difficult to understand or connect with their infants.

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Our services

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Our approach

We work alongside you to plan and deliver a collaborative therapeutic plan for your family. Based on your needs, we’ll work together to achieve your goals and connect you with other local services if you need them.

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How we support

We provide a safe and non-judgemental space and aim to be flexible to the needs of families. We offer in-person sessions for parents/caregivers of infants up to the age of two in addition to expecting parents.

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Resources

 Explore a selection of online resources and support services that can help you navigate parenthood and strengthen the relationship with your baby.

Our commitment

We strive to create a welcoming atmosphere for all kinds of families, including people from diverse family structures and minority groups.

It isn't necessary for a caregiver to be a biological parent to access our service.

We offer flexible therapy that respects your life experience, culture, background and needs.

For parents and caregivers

We offer a range of therapeutic interventions to help you bond, understand and enjoy being with your baby. Suitable for parents/caregivers with infants from 0-2, or those who are expecting.

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For healthcare professionals

Find out more about the support offered. Please note it is only possible to refer people currently living within Kent County Council administrative boundaries. 

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