Below is a list of useful links to both national support services and organisations specifically providing help to families living in Kent.
A padlet of multimedia resources will also be available soon.
Anyone experiencing a mental health crisis can call 111 and select the option for mental health.
If you think you may be at risk of hurting yourself or your baby:
Rethink have a highly trained and experienced team available 24/7 to provide expert support no matter what you are going through. The service is free to use, confidential and is open 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. The service is for people in Kent and Medway.
Helpline: 0800 107 0160
Available 24/7 every day of the year for anyone in emotional distress, struggling to cope or at risk of suicide.
Freephone: 116 123
If you are receiving support from another team, such as a community mental health team please get in touch with your point of contact.
Kent and Medway NHS Helpline: 0800 783 9111
Kent and Medway Safe Havens: Free mental health support for anyone aged 18+ living in Kent and Medway. The havens are there to offer mental health and crisis support in a welcoming, comfortable, non-judgmental, and non-clinical environment.
Drop-in service (no referral or appointment required). Support is available every day, 365 days a year. www.mhm.org.uk/kent-safe-havens
Kent and Medway Talking Therapies: free, confidential mental health support for adults aged 17.5 and over who are registered with a local GP.
https://kmtalkingtherapies.co.uk/
Samaritans: 24/7 confidential emotional support via a free national helpline. https://www.samaritans.org/how-we-can-help/contact-samaritan/
Qwell: Free digital mental wellbeing support for adults across the UK. No referral needed, just join the chat queue when you are ready to chat. Drop-in or pre-booked sessions available.
The Good Grief Trust (bereavement support): a UK charity run "by the bereaved, for the bereaved," ensuring support provided is rooted in personal experience. https://www.thegoodgrieftrust.org/
Belly Breathing: A great way to calm the body and mind and relieve stress.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Ep5mKuRmAA
Mindfulness exercises: Guided exercises from the NHS that could help you live more in the present moment
https://www.nhs.uk/every-mind-matters/mental-wellbeing-tips/what-is-mindfulness/
Progressive muscle relaxation: a technique that involves tensing and releasing specific muscle groups to physically reduce stress and promote deep relaxation.
NHS: Every Mind Matters - practical wellbeing tips from the NHS
https://www.nhs.uk/oneyou/every-mind-matters/
Kent Mental Health Helpline for parents-to-be and parents of new babies:
Available here.
Family Action: Offer a free helpline for families (Monday-Friday 9-7pm). Or text FAMILYACTION to 85258, to access the free 24/7 crisis support service.
https://family-action.org.uk/get-support/familyline/
PANDAS Foundation: Leading UK charity in supporting families suffering from prenatal (antenatal) and postnatal illnesses. Free support via phone, WhatsApp, Email or by joining support groups.
https://pandasfoundation.org.uk/
Singing Mamas: Informal singing group to support mums and improve mental health.
https://www.singingmamas.org/find-a-group
Maternal Journal: A global community movement that uses creative journaling to boost wellbeing in pregnancy, birth and parenthood.
https://maternaljournal.org
Thrive Psychological support for Trauma and Loss: Supports people who have previously had therapy for perinatal trauma and/or loss but are still experiencing PTSD symptoms.
https://www.kentmedwaymentalhealth.nhs.uk/thrive
Make Birth Better: (Birth trauma support)
Maternal Mental Health Alliance: Offers wellbeing tips and a mental health symptom checker https://maternalmentalhealthalliance.org/
Kent County Council family hub free courses: Learn about your baby's health, wellbeing and development as well as ways to cope with crying.
ICON: Focuses on coping with crying and preventing Shaken Baby Syndrome.
Mind: Guidance about how partners can experience postnatal depression
Available here
DADpad: A £12 downloadable guide for new dads, developed in partnership with the NHS, alongside other resources.
PinkParents: Support for gay and lesbian parents
Dadspace. Offer free in-person events including walk and talks for dads throughout Kent and Medway.
Provide a safe space for dads to talk, listen and share their experiences of fatherhood across the country.
Path Perinatal: Support information for young dads
https://path-perinatal.eu/uk/waf/young-dads/
Dads and Lads Network: (Bereaved fathers) Men’s support network set up in 2020 specifically for bereaved fathers.
https://nine4norah.co.uk/dads-lads-network
Gingerbread (single parents): Gingerbread groups are a safe space for single parents to share the highs and lows of parenting or just to have a cuppa and a chat while your children play.
https://www.gingerbread.org.uk/
PinkParents: Support for gay and lesbian parents
New Family Social: support and resources for LGBTQIA+, adoptive and foster families
https://newfamilysocial.org.uk/
Bliss: Has a dedicated webpage for LGBTQIA+ birthing or non-birthing parents of premature or sick babies and useful signposting to support groups
https://www.bliss.org.uk/parents/support/support-for-lgbt-families
LGBT Mummies: A global support network for LGBTQ+ women and people through specialized support groups, advocacy, and comprehensive resources tailored to the unique mental health and family-building challenges of the perinatal journey